Wombaticus - I’m sorry you’re going thru this to (((hugs))) I completely agree with everything you said. I’m trying to walk the fine line here too.

I’ve taken notice these past few months that our son is not wanting to spend as much time with his dad as he used to. I really do want all of our kids to have a relationship with their dad but I don’t push it like I used to. It hurts me but I keep it to myself. That’s my AH’s problem now (though he still blames me of course) Like you, I just be the best parent I can be.

We will get thru this!