FeelingGreat - Since we no longer live together I’m not sure of his drinking habits anymore. But plenty of evidence that he is still heavy in his addiction. 4 nights ago I was receiving drunken text messages again, this is what prompted me to firm up my boundaries.
I agree with some being able to do it on their own (sobriety) and kudos to them. But my AH has ALOT of other issues he needs to work thru before I ever see any sort of “true” recovery happening. He would be “white knuckling” it for sure.
Our son may be skeptical?? He’s at that odd teen stage, hard for me to guage his responses to “grown up” problems. He is not in any sort of therapy. I have tried to get him to speak with a therapist. He says he's good for now. I won’t push him, he knows it’s available if and when he’s ready.