Thank you lifechangenyc. I needed your directness. I don’t know if I can block him this second, but I will work toward that. Maybe I will change the setting to do not disturb so it won’t flash up on my home screen. I did hide his bank account on online banking because in our past breakups I would watch his spending and it would make me sick. He was spending about $20 a day at liquor stores. I became pretty obsessed. We have separate accounts and all the home bills are in my name so I don’t have to see his. Is that a sign of my codependency or what So, I think blocking that has been a step in the NC direction.