Lifechangenyc, he did not take much. He literally tried to walk out the door with just the clothes on his back. I told him to at least go get his toothbrush and a change of clothes. Three days...he just sent me another ‘love you ‘ text as I am typing this...ugh. Anyway, he texted 3 days after leaving if he could get some stuff. I said sure. I wasn’t sure what I’d come home to, but he only took a few clothes. I was going to pack stuff up and leave it on porch, but I think I feel bad doing that.

In the past I have packed stuff up and brought it to him. I was thinking this is me taking care of everything again and I shouldn’t do it.
I guess I could use some advice on this.

also, I’m going to try to not respond to ‘love you’ text!

thanks!