Originally Posted by
Doudou 
Hello, thanks for your advice. The 5,000$ in the drawer was money I had withdrawn to change it in USD this week since we are going to the states for a couple weeks. We are both very successful in our careers and make in the 6 figures each of us. Definitely responsible for that life aspect minus his problems obviously which makes it hard to take a decision also.
There is nothing responsible about what he is doing. It doesn't matter how much money he makes, and calling something responsible doesn't make it so. Change the one sentence in your reply to read "The 5,000$ in the drawer was money I had withdrawn to change it in USD this week since we are going to the states for a couple weeks, but then he invited druggies and drunks to our house who stole the 5K while he as yelling and berating me, and that's even forgetting about the fact that there is a cash machine in the states every square inch of the entire country, so I didn't need to have it in the first place."