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Old 01-20-2020, 03:44 PM
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Sohard
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Originally Posted by BackandScared View Post
You cannot control the impact of your posts on others. Most of us have bad days/tempting situations/cravings. Some relapse. The numbers say the majority relapses.

During the first few weeks I avoided relapse stories. They were a massive trigger. When every hour was an achievement taking me closer to a better place, reading that someone was still craving this much after months (months was like a life time) was ridiculously depressing.

It always made me feel there was no point i fighting this hard. It obviously did not mean that others should not write about their cravings or relapses.

Now I read posts like yours and they inspire me: to remain vigilant, to look for the dangerous signs, to reach out when it happens, to trust myself.

So thank you for sharing Sohard.
I’ve had the same experience where my reactions to posts have changed, dependent upon where I am in my sobriety. Strange how that works!
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