I found that my ability to remain faithful to one woman is commensurate with my ability to walk away from booze. All that I was looking for in the meaningless pursuit of women during my drinking is found in my sobriety. I think that for many of us the pain that we cause ourselves when we're drunks we seek to have absolved in the sexual pursuit of men or women or whatever we are into
I just know now that I don't have to fight the urges sexually that I used to when I was deep in a bender or coming off another nasty drunk weekend. It's so much more of a meaningful, peaceful and better way to live. But it takes work.