You would be surprised that there are a whole lot of people that are just like you or me just chomping at the bit to help others like us or them! It does us good to help others. Welcome to SR! I could have never gotten as far as I have without the help that this place has given me. I always check in the 24 hour recovery thread every morning to remind me that I can't drink. A good way to start the day! Please read and post as needed. Open 24/7. Best wishes for you on your journey!