Originally Posted by
ShiftHappens 
You " think" the emotions invovoled could be a trigger?
If ANYTHING external is going to trigger you, its going to be a relationship
Be careful ClarkG.
Yep^^^^
I didn't need to be responsible for anyone's emotions when I first got sober - my own were plenty! And when I did get involved (with my now husband - and a big factor is that we had dated in high school, and he reached out after he stopped drinking too), I went into it with a lot of thought and prayer. And counsel from folks with a lot more sobriety than me. We get to make our own choices for sure - I just know that I've never been sorry when I sought advice or thought twice about a big decision.