California......I am going to join the chorus, here, to impress on you the potential disaster(s) that await you if you procreate with her.
It is important for you to understand that protecting yourself is YOUR responsibility...100 per cent. Do not rely on what your partner might say, regarding birth control measures...as partners have been known to misrepresent.
I can tell that you know very little about how alcoholism works....and that you don't have much of a clue of what genuine recovery really looks like....
how much work it is...how long it really takes and what kinds of sacrifices it requires.....
To be honest, I don't see any place for any healthy kind of relationship, here....
just more and more dysfunction, as her disease continues to progress....
You will have to decide to endure the short-term pain for the long term-gain.....if you want a healthy relationship in your own future.....
Right now, alcoholism is controlling her life...and, yours.....