Originally Posted by
California123 
Agreed. I'm definitely trying--
Well, what you are doing is sending her mixed signals. You tell her it's over, but you still read her texts. You sleep with her and spend time with her. This is trying? Ariesagain lays out a very accurate depiction of what very well could happen if you continue this toxic relationship.
Ending it would be blocking all means of communication for both she and her family. They are as nuts as she is, and they could very well put you in a situation where you are miserable for the rest of your life.
If you are truly done, then
be done.