Yep...codies mourn, addicts replace.
It hurts like hell and I’m really sad you’re going through this. But maybe try to view it as another major piece of truth that you’re way too good for that situation, yes?
He may also be trying unconsciously (or consciously) to triangulate you and this poor new woman. He wouldn’t be the first to set up a situation where he can run back and forth between the two of you and keep you focused on each other and not on his rotten behavior.
Don’t let him know you know...it’s just going to confirm to him that you’re still hooked into him.
Turn your face to the sun, hold your head high and sail on. He was just a pothole in the road and I promise someday you’ll look back and be glad he’s out of your life.
