Originally Posted by PuzzledHeart

Why would you want to be with somebody who would gamble away his paycheck and fill you up with anxiety just because you set a boundary?



Why in the world would you WANT somebody like you just described to be into you like that?

I've dated somebody like that once or twice and in the end I prayed to the high heavens that they would NOT be into me and leave me alone. However, between the beginning and the end I felt guilty for "judging" them. Then I realized that a relationship solely based on pity is a doomed one.