Thanks everyone for the advice. I will give the aftercare a couple more tries but then Im going to look into individual therapy which was one of my early options before IOP. If I stop with the aftercare, Ill have time to do the individual therapy.
I do continue to go to aa and secular meetings and I get a lot out of those. They've become more of a priority for me as I've felt my focus on the after care meetings starting to become less enthusiastic.
Thanks.