Yes.. My biggest issues are the relapse, and the text messages he did while he was drinking. All the little issues that we sort of had before this seem so tiny now and I would trade just to have those problems back in a heartbeat. But for him, I guarantee he will be OK talking about it for a couple minutes but he is not going to want to focus on his drinking and behavior very long. He wants to move on and tell the therapist all the horrible things that I am. We will see. I’m curious to see how the therapist handles it all. I know I’m not perfect and there are things that I could work on in our marriage in general. Although most of the things he gets irritated with me about are my reactions to fear. I have hope. But at the same time I’m going in with my eyes open.