Oh I’m not leaving the forum! Heck no! It has been my lifesaver in the last few days, and I hope I can contribute at some point. I was talking about disengaging with my husband a bit. I feel like I’m playing 007 detective on what he’s doing, when he’s doing it and where he’s doing it. I can’t live that life right now. As of now he’s not drinking on a normal day at home. Thanksgiving was odd. Is he grumpy and irritable? Yes. But until I figure out what I’m going to do, and how to do it then I’m going to make my whole life for our daughter the best I can. Obviously, if he starts doing stuff around us or at home I will I have to draw a new boundary. Trust me, if I didn’t have to worry about finances or our daughter being with him, I would be out of here in a heartbeat.