Congratulations! That's wonderful news Surfbee, so happy to hear you and baby are doing so well. A Son! Just terrific news.
So many changes for you in such a short time!
Hey you know, if you are feeling apprehensive about anything, you don't have to make any big decisions right now. Maybe slow it down? Once everything is fixed up at your bf's place you can spend more time there but still keep your own place for a while, see how you are feeling? Spend a few days there here and there and see how it feels to you?
Just a thought as you sound so happy I would hate to think of you being hurt right now. Yes an argument is one thing, an argument when you are holding a baby is another thing.