“Be a priority rather than an option lol.”
There it is. Can you see how deep down you knew this wasn’t right? You’re obviously a smart cookie. If this were some regular guy still blowing you off to one night a week after 2 1/2 years, heck, six months, would you have agreed to it?
Sometimes the addiction gets the focus and the blame when maybe it’s just the person.
I guess the good news is that he insisted on so much time away from you that it might be a little easier...at least you won’t have a bunch of spare time you’ll have to fill, right?
I hope you didn’t take that as me being flippant... this is never easy, even when it’s right.
Have another hug...
P.S. You sure he didn’t have something going on elsewhere? Like maybe a Saturday night girlfriend? Not that it matters, of course...his loss, hon.