1. He’s been convicted at least twice, once on a domestic violence charge (or more?).
2. He’s broken the terms of his parole by leaving the state (with you picking him and and transporting him) without first obtaining permission.
3. He wrecked your car, and this isn’t the first time he’s destroyed your property.
4. He works “off and on” while you support him and he waffles about whether to quit drinking and whether to be in a relationship with you.
5. He tells his supposedly-ex girlfriend he still loves her (this is the one who called the police and had him charged with domestic violence, right?).
6. He keeps a relationship going with this ex (or maybe it’s a different one?) even though she has reported you for child abuse or neglect.
Why do you think there is any remote hope of a stable future with this person? Any one of these factors would be a deal-breaker, and all of them together ... ?
If you want a future of endless uncertainty and drama, you know what to do. If you don’t want a future of endless uncertainty and drama, you also know what to do.