woodlandlost…..Now would be the time to work on yourself and your own program, with intensity.....and, to develop more social supports for yourself...
hand in hand with your own counselor/therapist....
****I really, really hope that you will not sabotage her going into the impatient program!
The best way to lose her, for good, is to try to hang on too tightly...…
In a healthy relationship, both people need to be there because they want to be ther...VOLUNTARILY.....love does not require a strangle hold....in fact, it will flee from that....