You know, I think there are just some people you don't want to let go of entirely. I've thought about this a bit, I haven't come to any remarkable conclusions. I think there can be many reasons and some of them are perhaps not good for the person involved, but I don't think that's true in all cases.
I mean I totally understand HL - and I don't even know if it's "wrong". There are people who might have wronged me who I might actually speak to if they were to approach me. In fact there is really only one person I wouldn't speak to.
Anvil, great story! In theory the fuse should have tripped before he was completely fried up - however I'm really glad there was a power failure AND it's really weird!