HardLessons, have you talked to anybody else besides SR on why it's so hard for you to block her? I know that you're concerned by doing so you're just inviting her to visit your doorstep, But that would also be a very good opportunity to call the police, which I suspect is the last thing that she wants. I also suspect that is the last thing _you_ want. The question I have is why? Is it the thought of having to explain your situation to others who haven't been in your shoes?