Lawry:
Look for the similarities, not the differences...
I used to do the same thing -- I'd get pissed because the meeting wasn't exactly what I wanted.... and therein lies my problem -- when life isn't what I want, I get restless, irritable and discontent. I have to learn to live in a way where I accept what life has to offer, and what people have to offer... AA helps me learn that.
Keep coming back to AA, get a sponsor -- and get to work on the steps...
One day at a time, one meeting at a time...
Ken