It is to be noted that he kept attending AA for years while still using, so lying to himself and others.
AA has nothing to do with his issues....he was still in active addiction. sorry for your problems, but AA is not one of them.
. AA promotes extreme selfishness;
actually AA promotes selflessness and working with others.
He would tell me that the members claim not to be drinking, but they smoke like chimneys, have sex orgies and other addictive behaviors. He claims to be happier than he’s ever been, but has terrible mood swings, anger outbursts, and his work production has gone way down. Our sex life has totally died and he looks at me with contempt.
his report from AA meetings, not actual fact. his behavior is the only thing that is relevant.
your husband succumbed to addiction and did not find a way to stop.