Originally Posted by
SoberRican 
in my case my marriage dissolved into divorce.
Same. I'm not going to lie, when it comes to the 12 steps, I have a huge resentment that I have to learn to let go. If I was being brutally honest, I'd have to say I resent a lot of the people in AA in addition to my ex-wife. It's not logical or reasonable, but it both hurts and pisses me off that my wife left so quickly (because her stepdad was an alcoholic) and didn't even try to help me. While others have done so much worse and their wives stuck with them. I know it's something I have to let go of, but it's not easy letting go of those resentments.