Hang in there Less.
It’s a process you both have to go through.
You know you are no longer that mess of a man.
She has to get to know the new you and get up to speed.
Probably didn’t think you’d do it and now she’s behind. Not saying she’s in the wrong. Acceptance and mutual support is key in my eyes.
Friends and family are still getting used to the new me. And so am I
Hope this wave of unpleasantness passes soon for the both of you.