Originally Posted by
fini 
you know, Lucinda, it is perfectly alright to be entirely unapologetic about not joining others in any event whatsoever when you have no reason to!
just sayin’.
though you obviously know this
Fini, I needed to hear this. I am actually pretty good at saying, no. I do it a lot.
What I am not so good at is feeling ok about having said no. I replay and justify the decision in my head, worry at it. I am going to stop doing that. From now on I am going to work on 'no, thats not for me' and leaving it there.
This is a really useful post to me. I am going to add it to my knowledge bank, thank you!