I've been accused of being high an awful lot, and in 99% of those cases, I was actually as high as a kite. In the 1% of cases that I wasn't, I would get really frustrated with the accuser. But, eventually, I realised that it wasn't exactly a massive jump for people to accuse me of being high considering I spend 99% of my life inebriated on some kind of substance.
Friends and family lose so much trust in us when we're using or drinking. They also become accustomed to lies and manipulation so their accusations are pretty well-founded.
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