Oh gosh, Schne, I hope you’re doing okay. Be strong and don’t feel sorry for him. I’m 17 months from having mine removed by the police and went through violations of the restraining order; it was shitful. My state allows a Judge to have an abuser evicted from the residence and that really saved me. Also, if you are asked about a plea agreement and get to have input, don’t be sold by what a prosecutor tells you—lesson learned. Say what you feel and don’t go along just because the prosecutor tells you what *might* happen or what is common. Take care of you..