Please stay safe this is escalating and even if it kills you inside it may be safer to behave like you are back in line while secretly working on your plan. For real change all your passwords to fingerprint if you can, or something he would never guess but also brings you joy- for example when I changed mine I changed it to silly things like "ah has a tiny *****" he would never guess that and it made me laugh in a very difficult time, I always wondered when he got back on the accounts that I had changed the challenge questions as well if he had to read them? they were awfulll personal