You know, anger is a recognized stage of grieving even when the situation is far more straightforward than this is.
Heck yes, you’re angry. You’re
still cleaning up after the elephants and it never was your circus.
I highly recommend beating the crap out of a sofa pillow.*
Sending you a big hug.
* I will also confess that once while on prednisone I also beat a loaf of bread to death. So that’s also an option.