Yes well, I spoke with my lawyer and we are going forward with mediation and I still don’t have any hard evidence of his drinking. It’s got to be him breaking the law in some way. I can still put language in the separation agreement that states we will be sober when the kid is in our care. He would not agree to a UA, he would not agree to a breathalyzer. I’m stuck. It Sucks and the only thing I can do is watch and wait for something to go wrong and educate my poor kid. I feel so helpless.