Can't have it both ways
AH didn't come to 2 kid's concerts during the week. Beautiful music concerts. Not squeaky violins and descant recorders.
In fact we didn't see him for 3 days as we left early for our day, and got home late several days in a row.
He then expects them to hang out with him on the weekend.
It's just not how life works. You can't just pull people in when it suits you.
It's taken me a long time to figure out what has been happening, and now its impossible to ignore. I'm so sad for my children though. And me, if I'm honest with myself.