I’m trying to reach out & create a new life.
An old friend who I was estranged from for a few yrs, has re entered and I was pleased we cld heal old wounds from what was a mis understanding & lack of communication causing our fall out.
However enter ExAH who thought it was ok to ring her the following day when he discovers this? Friend didnt like this & rings Me to tell me she’s blocked him. Ok....so then I ask him why did he ring & she d prefer him not too.
ExAH doesn’t like this and is put out?
However Friend then divulged that years ago they were working near each other and he goes in asks if she fancied a drink at lunchtime, they did, then they colluded not to tell me as I may not like it?
My question is I have to ask my ExAH if an affair happened, Friend says not, but it will def determine if our friendship continues as I’m mindful now about trust in future relationships, I haven’t got time now for friendships that aren’t genuine.
For bkground info this Friend has had numerous affairs (that’s why I’m sceptical).
Would u ask ExAH?
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Many Thanks.