Thank you for reaching out, Changing. I believe you should go with your parents for a bit; you cannot save your husband from himself, and your children will be safer and happier without the drama. Perhaps just for a few days; you need a break, my dear. I also agree that stories of relapse should be taken very seriously and that it doesn't matter how much sobriety you have-it can happen at any stage. I had 15 years of sobriety and got complacent, thought that I had it figured out--what a sad joke. Alcoholism took me to the brink of death after that long run; now I have 3 years, 8 months and guard my sobriety like the precious jewel that it is. Wishing you all the best on your sober journey. You can do this!