Dazed......you are the one who knows him. You would know his reasons better than any of us would. If he is entering treatment, today....perhaps he will settle down a bit.....maybe, just take a chill pill for right now and let the dust settle for a few days....and, give some calm consideration...and, then try some calmer negotiations to affect the separation...…
I think that this has unfolded in such a dramatic way...and, you are still trying to wrap your head around it...you are probably going to be somewhat ****off or angry and discontent with whatever direction he takes.....