Originally Posted by
Dazedandconfus 
When I said to him I’m sad to see it come to this his reply was “ you should have let me drink”. There you have it.
Ah Jesus...that's harsh. One thing I remind myself is that I still love my EXAH, (well who he used to be) and as I wouldn't let him walk out in front of a moving car...I wouldn't let him drink. Both end in death.
I've lost him forever because of that choice...my choice. I honestly couldn't live with myself if I'd told him it was ok. I still feel like I owe it to him to say no.
Please remember that you're never letting them do anything...he's gonna drink no matter what you do. So go do you!!!