I see. well, whatever the case, if he is not committed, there is an underlying reason behind it, is what im trying to say. So I guess WE are the ones who didnt want to see those signs that something is definitely wrong in this picture.
I am trying to cope and take the responsibility too for my own blindness in a way. But then again, I wasnt aware of the depth of his problem for quite awhile. So I cant really blame myself for not knowing...however, I realise in my case it is boundaries thing too- i was too understandive of his needs but neglected mine.
huh, Its difficult alright...
