I started to settle in to my 'true self" at around 6 months sober. I was more relaxed, didn't have cravings, and genuinely had fun doing the activities that interest me. I was able to laugh again, feel comfortable in my own skin, and start to put the shame and regrets of years of alcohol abuse behind me. Every month gets better and better, give yourself some more time. You're off to a great start!!
