mb, I never expected to be happy w/o a partner, probably b/c I hadn't been without someone for any length of time for my entire adult life. I'm 4 years divorced now and enjoying my solitude and space far more than I could ever have believed.
Being on my own has its problems, no doubt, but I prefer to deal w/those problems rather than the ones associated with finding and living with someone else. Honestly, a lot of the time, the "problems" are actually lessons for me in living on my own in the world, something I never learned to do in the past. We here all know how scary it can be to move out of our comfort zone and start to take full responsibility for ourselves and our lives...
The choice is all yours, when and if YOU decide you're interested in looking again.
