I’m divorced 7 months and was with my first ex 12 years (dating and marriage) and then went straight to my second ex for 16 years, I have never been truly alone and I must admit I am liking it a lot so far. I feel like I need to be single for a good long while. Now if i happen to run into someone I’m not necessarily against trying dating, I’m just not interested in actively looking for someone. Even though my codependent tendencies have become a lot less I’m still a little worried about getting into another bad relationship and gettting attaches to quickly. My friend is on dating apps and I must say I have not interest in those. Maybe that will change maybe it won’t. And I have zero feelings for my ex so that is just a dumb argument. I guess people feel sorry for people who aren’t in a relationship. What they don’t realize is that sometimes it is much better to be single