Originally Posted by Jeri
What is it that I have done wrong? I have thought about joining a narcotic alnon - I think that is the name, but should I still join even if I feel the marriage is over?
First of all, welcome to SR. This place is full of wonderful people on all sides of addictions. It is nar anon you are speaking of and I think it would do you a lot of good. We have a nar anon forum here. Why not pop over there and read some of the sticky posts at the top. It is nothing you have done that makes him use. If he is an addict, and that's not for me to decide, then he uses because he knows no other way. That's why I used to use. I loved to blame people, but it was just an excuse. I will say a prayer for you and your family
Sherry