hey jm1982
be supportive be loving. show him care and you will always be there 4 him. try not to be controlling or too pushy about. there is nothing you can do or say that will make him stop or realize he has a problem. it has to come from him. deep down inside of himself he has to reach a point where he truly wants to stop or try to get better. if he isnt already aware of NA or AA sugest it to him. and you yourself shouyld consider ALANON( for family members of the addicted. keep your head up and keep your faith.