Originally Posted by
Imaginarium
Much like you, when I was along for the ride, he loved me because he still had use for the relationship. When I started to prioritize myself over him and his addictions, I really saw him for who he was and how he treated me. He became more and more hurtful as I put my foot down, and I lost sight of the person I felt like he was in my head. The actual person he is isn’t a very good friend or partner.
This resonated with me. I think I'm starting to see a very selfish & disrespectful person that isn't even a good friend. He's incapable of being a husband or a friend, because he's consumed by his relationship with alcohol.