Originally Posted by
clarity888 
I have experienced similar things. My AH was not as concerned as I was about our son's needing help with some things. He likes to say "it's not that big a deal"; I almost think he knows I will "nerd out" and try to find out all I can, maybe thinking I have it covered. I'm not sure. I remember during the toddler years and having to explain several times why asthma medication needed to be given nightly.
Ye, I just find it really inconsistent. He's completely dropped off all texts in the last month. I used to get weekly updates about our sons condition from him, which was handy as I needed to keep a record for the paediatrician. He's down played our sons issue, which is gonna cause problems as he wants him to play sports. I think it's a combination of my EXAH spewing so many lies about me (I called cops on him and kicked him out of our home because of a drunken assault), he's been trying to downplay the assault (it could have been worse... Its not like I hit you). I think he now needs to belittle and downplay anything else I do... Like get our son tested for a bloody obvious condition. Now that the specialist has confirmed his condition EXAH just ignores.
I'm just flabbergasted.. Yet again.. By his mental flip flopping.