I have experienced similar things. My AH was not as concerned as I was about our son's needing help with some things. He likes to say "it's not that big a deal"; I almost think he knows I will "nerd out" and try to find out all I can, maybe thinking I have it covered. I'm not sure. I remember during the toddler years and having to explain several times why asthma medication needed to be given nightly.