Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
curious who he thinks is going to READ it? it's not going in the newspaper for pete's sake.
don't give him an inch. seriously. don't try to appease him or his stupid ego.
^^^^
THIS!!! Go as hard as you can and don't give an inch. It's so much easier to have your parenting plan the way you want/need it from the get-go vs. trying to get it changed later.
My divorce filing can be found if someone googles my name because it's public record, but the details aren't in it. It's just plaintiff/defendent/court cost paid/divorce granted this day/etc. - - there are no personal details in it.