jjwinters; been right where you are.
Trailmix really pointed out a very important point;
”...the fact that she must know what you are doing 24/7 and expects you to drop everything at a moments notice to run to her side is about dependence, not love.”
We all have been there, in one form or another. I was completely consumed by my ex girlfriend. She expected 24/7 care. It started to eat me alive. I thought, worried, obsessed about HER & her addiction 99% of the day. She flirted with other men... etc etc.
That’s no way to live. There’s hope once you step outside of the chaos!