Originally Posted by
Meadow123 
Yes Clover71, I fear conflict to the point it paralyzes me. I cannot defend myself properly when confronted with BS I just feel backed in a corner. If I had strength to stand up to him, it would be in a calm manner. I do not yell or swear. My hope is to come to an understanding, learn and move forward but..... the fear shuts off my brain. Time will tell tomorrow when I get to work what will happen. I know most of the other directors will have my back. Some may be intimidated by him as well. We do have an anti bullying policy in place so he should know better.
I wish you well. Walking in eggshells again has to be hard. I had one of those at work. Thank god she quit. My friend told me I had to stand up to her and talk to her like she did to me. I didn't trust that I wouldn't be labeled the bully.
Im glad to see you are otherwise better. Long journey.