No remorse, no ability to understand what he's put you & the kids
through - classic red flags of narcissist.
Maybe try to expect the irrational & illogical & flat out lies, and
when something rational or logical or truthful comes out of
his mouth you can be surprised.
He can call you a chair, but that doesn't mean you are a chair.
You can acknowledge that something is HIS reality, but that
you will continue to do what is best for you & the kids.
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